Wednesday, February 6, 2019

MARRIAGE: A HIDDEN TREASURE WITH 1000 WISDOM

ASSALAMUALAIKUM :)

Alhamdulillah. Still given a breath by Allah SWT  to live as Muslim in this world.
Alhamdulillah for every blessing he give us.
Alhamdulillah too much we received, yet still we feel its not enough.

I'm going to have my exam starting this weekend and will be continued next week.
you know what sometimes i feel trouble to continuing study. i feel like it does not bring important in my life. Feel like wasting money and time. Astaghfirullah. Everytime i'm just thinking to stop work on it and because i have another plan. I want to change my courses, well i think this will be my second time changing courses in university. Hehe. I'm thinking to learn Religion as i know that is more important than learning subject that does not related to akhirah. Well if saying about planning, i have too many plans right now but never know which one, when it's going to work. About changing the courses surely i'll get two hard knocks if i do. Ad, stop creating ruckus okay!
Getting in the ruckus means you have to settle it by yourself okay, blame on you. Hmm.
Please pray for me okay, to let Adni finish her BBA successfully until the day he Graduate smoothly and nicely. IN SYA ALLAH.

Okay next, dad acquire new shop! Alhamdulillah. Guys i got a secret to tell you guys about something and it was called MARRIAGE: A HIDDEN TREASURE WITH 1000 WISDOM.

Why it so called as that?
There is something people scared of to start with.
Something that not yet happen but it gives young adults, a thousand of worries.
What is that? Can you guess?
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MARRIAGE

Many of them are scared.
maybe they once feels the broken
aches in heart
it takes a years to heal
broken pieces by pieces
to prevent it they more likely to live as single
just be a good friend and giving hopes and loves
leave it when they are done
Astaghfirullah.

To be honest, as Muslim, we say that we believe Allah S.W.T as our God, and Prophet Muhammad S.A.W as His Messenger, we have IMAAN, Faith to Him, we should be brave. If we understand why we born as Muslim, know our responsibilities, to obligate Allah S.W.T in all aspect , In Sya Allah, Allah will ease and help us. Back to AL-QURAN and SUNNAH if we want something that can help us to worship Allah S.W.T, to complete our imperfection, truly we are far from imperfectness... too far. But to complete our half Deen, it's through marriage.

You know what, my parents married at their young age 23 for my mom and 27 for my dad. My mom is the eldest daughter from eight siblings and dad is the youngest son from four siblings. Dads wanders out from his country to Malaysia on his young age, he then being matchmaking by his mom to my mom. And without they know each other, they married and dad prepared all things for mom to come with him to Malaysia. With nothing, penniless after married, but now have everything because one thing, MARRIAGE.

Alhamdulillah.
Prophet Muhammad S.A.W enjoined up in the followers to marry.
He said "when a man marries, he has fulfilled half of his religion , so let him fear Allah regarding the remaining half." This hadith is narrated by Anas. Islam greatly encourages marriage because it shields one from and upholds the family unit which Islam places great importance.

Yes, marriage is easy but its a long term responsibility same just with SALAH, FASTING, DO GOOD TO PARENTS, SADAQAH and others than that.
It's about full time commitment. 
Marriage helps us many ways whether in health, life, and for future.
Marriage grows us in many aspect positively as we improving little by little.
My parents , Alhamdulillah, we got more than enough. We siblings, able to live normal like others. We have shelters, clothes, food and drinks, going to school, we got our job. Yes, for the starters, it might hard for us, but it does not matter, everything that was provided to us is ENOUGH. More than enough. We are happy even its not rich. We are thankful, if we are able to going back on that time, we would cherish it on every single moment. As it was priceless memories that we are not going to have it again.

Look, marriage need a lot of hard work, effort, patience and love.
Its teach us many things that both never had experience before to become more matured.
We gonna have many differences, many things needs to sacrifices. But, believe everything is worth at the end of the journey if we understand why we being as Muslim, In Sya Allah, let it be any obstacle and problem coming, as we don't know what will happen in the future, but Trust Allah S.W.T.


"أَحَسِبَ النَّاسُ أَن يُتْرَكُوا أَن يَقُولُوا آمَنَّا وَهُمْ لَا يُفْتَنُونَ "

Do the people think that they will be left to say, "We believe" and they will not be tried?

Surah Al-Ankabut: Verse 2


IMAAN. Our IMAAN will always going to be tested as long we are living.
Back to al Quran and Sunnah. 
Learn Religion everyday, always upgrade your knowledge in Islam and put Allah first in your heart. Ask from Him for every things we want in life. Because He know the best in us. He want to know our level of Taqwa and how we face it. Back to Him. We all belong to Him, we shall return to Him. 

Marriage is not a burden, it is a rizk' from Allah S.W.T to his creature who have Imaan in life.
To all good man and woman out there, let's be a good Muslim everyday, and In Sya Allah you will meet a good partners who are perfectly for you. Pray the best okay! Hoping too have more good Mukmin in this world who are brave and be the next soldier of Islam to help spreading the Da'wah and be the shield of all Muslim in the world. Aaminn.